Are you afraid of owning your own power? Changing how we feel about ourselves and understand why we believe and think the way we do is the start of taking control over our mindset.
It can increase your fear to acknowledge that in your childhood you had no control.
Growing up I often felt like an outsider that had nothing to contribute which followed me well into my adulthood. I spent my time hiding by trying to fit in through actions that didn’t really make me feel good. I couldn’t see the value in myself because I still hung onto all those feelings from my childhood. My worthiness was depending on what I had to say without realizing that I didn’t really belong there.
When I realized that had no powers a child but I had powers an adult, my mindset began to shift, albeit slowly there was still progress.
I stopped making the excuse of being an introvert and started to share my story to anyone that would listen. It was a matter of becoming real about who I was, what I stood for and owning my own feelings – good and bad.
Not every day is rosy and there are still times I am dealing with self-doubt and my own abilities but I also realized that I need to be heard and that my story has an impact in this world.
I can help other others through their own limiting belief by sharing my experiences of feeling worthless and not fitting in.
One of the greatest things I learned is that by my own willingness to change the way I think and how I feel about myself, I could increase my confidence in my own skin.
The reality is, not everyone is going to resonate with my story, and that’s okay. Why?
Because someone does need to hear what I have to say, to help them – to inspire them.
The biggest lesson of all is that facing my fear of owning my power is that I don’t allow others to dictate how I feel about myself. No one has that right to tell you how to feel!
What matters is how you think and feel about yourself.
The Rebel Shine Bootcamp helps you dive into the places you’ve been hiding so that owning your power is no longer intimidating to you!