Most often we wait to make changes until it’s too late, like we wait until there is no point of return. And I am asking you to stop waiting for it to happen magically.

You can make the changes you want, right now. Because making changes when you are dead are pointless.

If you want to feel happier, have more ease, be healthier, be more open – just start doing and being those things right now. We attract more the kind of life we want when we are open and already being, feeling and doing the things we have put on hold or are just simply ignoring.

I have always just wanted to be me and believed that it was so hard to do because I was unsure of who I was nor did I know what I stood for. So, it was easy to just go with the flow of others rather than going upstream, which apparently is my preferred method.
And apparently to find myself, my voice and figure out what I stood for, I left a relationship – not because I don’t love this man – but I felt I couldn’t make the changes that I wanted while being with him. And if we we are partners for life we would find our way back to each other.

Which is ridiculous, although I feel that it would have taken me much longer. There was that point of no return feeling but I have since learned you don’t have to go that route.

Don’t go for a divorce or a break-up rather seeks the support and help you need to make the changes that you want. Forgive yourself for being so hard on you or the other person, and commit to loving yourself through it all.

Don’t wait for death to lose weight, rather acknowledge that you have allowed yourself to let go, forgive yourself for not taking care of you better and commit that you will love yourself in every way.

Love yourself right now, right here in this moment and commit to being a better person. Be that mirror to you and everyone in your life. Be the light and inspiration that will allow others to acknowledge that change and improvement can happen.
You just must be willing, right here – right now amid the chaos and frustration.

And more than anything get the support through it all – whether its’s through a friend or professional (therapist or coach or both) – because doing it alone can trip you up.

When you’re ready to leap into change and want the support to make it happen, then let’s work together!

Petra Monaco

Petra Monaco

The Rebels Den

Author + Artist, a Goal Coach + Business Strategist. Petra helps freedom-seeking Rebels + Creatives to follow their intuition, embrace who they are while they taking action towards their dreams + goals - whether it’s writing a book, starting a business or just focusing on personal goals. Petra uses her personal story to inspire and motivate people into doing the work they need to do to create change because she believes that your excuses are just avoidance. You can have the cake and eat it too if you're willing to show up for it!
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